Gratitude The Cure For Depression
Depression is the opposite of a state of gratitude – it is a feeling of despondency that can be caused by inactivity, a spouse or friend
walking away from your life, unemployment, a deteriorating economic state, sickness (your own or that of a loved one), any factor that sends the
equilibrium of the mind into negative territory or even hormones. In other words, depression is what optomism is not.
I would maintain that thanks are the highest form of thought; and that gratitude is happiness doubled by wonder. ~G.K. Chesterton
Depression first {strangulates|chokes|strangles|suffocates and then, if not checked, goes on to universally destroy positive thought. It
sends the positive thouts and attitude process sinking fast, and places the depressed person in a zombie-like stupor. A depressed person slows
down at work, does not enjoy family life, ignores or avoids his friends and relations and remains in a condition of continuing dissatisfaction.
That was the mental angle – a depressed person suffers on the physical front too because negative thinking depresses the immune system.
Additionally, a depressed person suffers from fatigue and keeps imagining that he is affected by some illness.
Depression has to be rebuffed as quickly as possible. The first thing that a depressed man may do is to reach out for anti-depressant pills,
which give a temporary relief from depression. However, depression usually stems out of a negative thought process and the best way to fight it
is positive thinking. Yes, a depressed person needs to start thinking positively to ward off depression, and one of the greatest factors that can
usher in positive thought is the feeling of gratitude.
Gratitude, or thankfulness, is an appreciation of a benefit received. Expressing gratitude makes one feel good and also tanks him up with
positive vibes, and he begins to feel upbeat and full of encouraging energy. The body will be energized and actually healthier. The big question,
however, is what to be grateful for and to whom to express our thanks.
Well, the answer to that question lies inside any one of us. If we take a look at our own lives, we will find innumerable instances that we
can be grateful for. For instance:
We can thank the lord for giving us a good night's rest, for a great sunny day and for the birds chirping in our backyard. If we are healthy,
we can thank nature for giving us a robust body constitution; if we are unwell, we can thank the doctors for bringing us out of our condition.
Thank life for not leaving you alone, high and dry!
These were just a few examples – sure enough, you will find many more reasons to feel grateful towards Nature and towards your family/friends
once you start meditating on your life. So, go right ahead and do that, and when you discover the little things that add that sparkle to your
existence, humbly express your gratitude to them.
The positive attitude you express will promote positive thinking, which in turn will drive away the darkness that depression has burrowed into
mind. Gratitude will drive away the fears planted by depression and sprinkle your mind with good cheer, and once you are cheerful, the world will
be wonderful. Forever.
To Do:
1) Make a list of 10 things that you are thankful for "right now".
2) Put up a sign reminding you to make another list every day.
3) Add to your list during the day every time you start having any negative thought.
4) Save your lists in a scrapbook.
5) Read your scrapbook if you are having trouble remembering anything you are thankful for.
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